About this lesson
Become a better speaker by rehearsing your presentation on video.
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So here's the part of the course where we separate the men from the boys,
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the women from the girls.
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In fact, those distinction aren't even what's relevant.
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Here's where we separate good speakers from awful speaker and
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here's the distinction and I know some of you aren't going to like this.
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Most of you might not even do this, it's up to you.
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I can't reach through the computer and force you to do it,
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but here is what you need to do.
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You need to now practice your presentation and record it on video.
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Pull out a cell phone, a smart phone, an iPad, a webcam, it can be on a laptop.
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I don't care, it doesn't matter the lighting quality,
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the production values, it doesn't matter what camera you use.
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All that matters is that you give a presentation and
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you record it on video and I'm gonna tell you right now that this
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isn't gonna make me popular, but you can watch all my videos a thousand times.
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Read my books forward and backward ten times,
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you're not gonna be a better speaker.
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It just isn't going to help you.
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The only thing that will help you is if you can reflect on those principles
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in the videos and in the books and then practice it on video and watch it.
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That's the only thing that's going to help you be a better speaker.
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At some level,
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becoming a much better speaker is like learning how to ride a bicycle.
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You can watch videos on how to ride a bike, you can listen to lectures on how to
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ride a bike, you can read books about how to ride a bike.
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But at some point, you gotta get on that bike when you're four or
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five years old, wobble, fall down, get on again.
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Wobble some more, maybe stay on a little bit longer, fall over, get on again.
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And after a while, you're riding the bike.
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Public speaking is more like that than it is learning
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complexities of physics or chemistry.
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It is not a purely intellectual abstract thought process,
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because it involves your body, your voice, your emotions,
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your hands, it involves all of those things.
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So I'm not going to ask you, I'm actually going to beg you, I beg you.
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Take the outline that you created, look at those message points,
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look at your examples and I want you to just give your presentation and
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record it and then I need you to watch it and
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I need you to figure out what is it you like, write them down.
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What is it you don't like?
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I also need you to share this video with colleagues,
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people you work with, people you respect.
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If it's a family member you really trust to be able to give you objective
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advice, do that.
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Otherwise, I'd stay away from family members.
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They're too often likely to say, oh, what did you wear that tie for?
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I told you to throw that away last year, but
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find people whose judgment you trust, give them the video and
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ask them what messages do they remember and what do they like?
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That's going to be extraordinarily useful advice.
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Please don't go to the next lesson until you've done this.
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Don't fast forward, record yourself now.
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Watch it, critique it and have others do the same.
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