About this lesson
Great leaders have common traits, but they aren't born with them. Anyone can develop these traits with practice.
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If you want to speak like a leader,
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it really means one thing, you want to become a great public speaker.
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Think of the best leaders of all time.
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Whether it's government or business, it's very hard to imagine someone
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like that who was an awful public speaker, or even a mediocre public speaker.
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The greatest leaders in history, and even today, are also great public speakers.
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In fact, great public speaking and leadership are synonymous.
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Because part of being a leader is you have to lead groups of
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people to take the actions you want.
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If all you can do is speak one-on-one, it's very hard to reach a whole group.
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So that's what speaking like a leader is really all about,
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it's being a great speaker.
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Now, what does that mean?
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When you think of great leaders throughout history, and modern-day,
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it doesn't matter if it's Roosevelt,
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it doesn't matter if it's Churchill, Reagan, Clinton, John F. Kennedy.
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Whoever your leaders are that you admire, they're all different,
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different styles of speaking, and yet,
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they're all remarkably similar when it comes to certain traits.
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For starters, they all spoke with amazing confidence.
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When you saw Roosevelt speak, or Churchill, or Clinton, or
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Tony Blair, in recent times, they don't show a shred of doubt.
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Nervous, you don't see hands shaking.
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You don't see them say, well, I kind of think, maybe, sort of.
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No, they speak with absolute confidence in their ideas, and that's contagious.
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And I'm going to teach you how to do that.
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The other big trait that they all share,
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is the ability to talk about big ideas, complex ideas about the world,
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but to talk about it using simple language that everybody understands.
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Now, this is a big problem for a lot of people.
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Because if you're a little bit insecure, the natural tendency is,
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I'll show people how smart I am.
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I'll show them how I know everything on this subject, and
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I'll use big words, and I'll use acronyms, and I'll use fancy lingo.
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That's what people do, who aren't leaders.
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Leaders understand it's about helping these people.
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It doesn't matter if it's investors for a startup.
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It doesn't matter if it's voters, it's about helping them have the ideas that
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you already have, and getting them to do something with you.
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That's what leadership is about.
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Winston Churchill, very learned individual,
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wrote the ten volume history of English speaking people.
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Would still pride himself in being able to give complicated speeches on foreign
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policy during the war, never used a word with more than two syllables.
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Because he understood, as he often told his staff,
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there's a huge difference between how the eye processes words,
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big words, versus how the ear processes words.
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The ear really doesn't process big words,
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it's better to keep it shorter words, smaller words, simpler words.
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And those are some of the things that we're going to focus on in this course, so
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that you can speak like a leader.
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But the big picture of course is, you gotta be a great speaker.
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That means people have to understand you, understand your messages.
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Remember your messages, because you made them so compelling.
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And know what you want them to do, and want to take the actions you want.
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So you've gotta be a great speaker.
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You've got to exude confidence.
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And you have to have a message that people understand and can buy into.
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Do those things, and you can learn to be a great public speaker.
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And please realize, this is not something anybody's born into.
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John F Kennedy was considered a horrible public speaker,
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even as a member of Congress, as an adult.
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He was considered a horrible speaker.
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Read head down, hands shaking a little, he learned to be a better speaker.
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Winston Churchill was considered a very bad public speaker compared to his father,
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who was also a political leader and
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was just great at thinking off the top of his head in the House of Commons.
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Winston Churchill had to work at it, work at it, and practice, and practice,
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and practice.
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He wasn't a natural.
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But he learned to be a great public speaker.
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Ronald Reagan might be a role model for you.
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People don't realize Ronald Reagan was a good speaker,
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not just because of his acting background, but because when he had a major
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speech like the State of the Union address, he would practice it.
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Read it out loud for three hours a night, in the residency,
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in the White House, getting familiar with the text.
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Not to memorize it, he was using a teleprompter.
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He would then spend an entire day of videotape rehearsal for
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a big speech like State of the Union.
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He did all that so he could sound completely confident and
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relaxed with the material.
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So these are some of the secrets of the greats.
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And now, you're going to know exactly how to do it.
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And if you follow this course, you're actually going to do this.
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So that by the time we end you will, in fact, speak like a leader.
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