About this lesson
Key takeaways for continuous improvement in public speaking.
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We're coming to the conclusion of this public speaking course, and
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I certainly hope you've learned a lot.
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I've got some very specialized techniques that I believe in, but it's not about
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you doing everything the TJ way or what anyone else says in a book or a course.
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It is about you, constantly trying new things,
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holding yourself to high standards and trying to get better and better.
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In fact I believe you should have a lifetime improvement plan for
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your public speaking.
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And that includes like regularly watching TED Talk speakers you admire,
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or political leaders you admire, and
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really analyzing what it is they're doing when it comes to public speaking.
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It includes reading more public speaking books, going to public speaking blogs and
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analyzing every speaker you see trying to figure out what works, what doesn't work.
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I've given you an awful lot of principles to think about.
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I've tried to demonstrate best practices.
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It really all comes down to one thing.
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If I had to leave you with one final thing to think about, it is to simply practice
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every presentation, every speech you give, on video.
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Watch it until you're happy with it.
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That's really what it comes, if you do that, believe me.
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You will be better off than 99.99% of your competitors,
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of the people in your company, your organization,
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any competitors in the political arena.
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You'll be so much better than they,
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are because most speakers really aren't very good.
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That's the good news about you being here trying to improve,
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is most people don't really try to improve.
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But also keep this in mind, no matter how good you are, you can't win them all.
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I don't care how good a speaker you are.
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If you speak often enough, somebody's gonna dislike you,
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somebody's going to give you a bad review, somebody's going to fall asleep.
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You can't worry about that.
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If 30 people in the room are on the edge of their seats listening to every word you
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say and there's one person sort of sitting in the back like this, don't ignore the 30
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people who are really into you and give all your attention to that one person.
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No, that's a huge mistake.
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Occasionally give that person attention but no more attention than anyone else.
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You want to reward everyone in your audience.
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Don't get discouraged if you lose one or
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two, nobody is beloved by every single audience.
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Do the best you can, do what works for most people.
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Most of the time, is my research shows,
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as I think your own in the field research will show, what works best for
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most people, is if you narrow the messages you have down to a handful,
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and then illustrate every single point with a key story.
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A story that's personal to you, that's relevant to your audience,
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that isn't generic, that doesn't sound like it came from a book.
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A story will really help that message come alive.
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If you're using PowerPoint, use one image
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per slide to really make that idea come alive.
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If you got a traditional PowerPoint, deck lots and lots of data, give it as
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a handout, email it to people, that's what I do here with a couple of my books.
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Don't project it and force everyone to read it in front of you.
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Do all these things and I guarantee you you're not going to be a good speaker,
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you're going to be a great speaker.
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So, please, please, please, don't ever be one of these people again who gets up,
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good morning, I'm happy to be here today.
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I'm sorry I didn't really have any time to prepare.
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My assistant didn't really put these slides together.
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You're not ever going to apologize again.
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You're not ever going to have bad slides again.
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You're not going to give a data dump again.
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You're going to be great with every single presentation you give from now on.
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So, good luck and let's get to more rehearsal.
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