About this lesson
Most people don't prefer the sound of their own voice, but recording it is key to improving it.
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Let's hop right in.
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The first thing you have to do if you want to improve your voice is you have to
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really diagnose it and make sure we know exactly what the problems are.
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That means you're going to have to record your voice and listen to it.
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These days it's very simple to do.
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Every smartphone has an audio recorder, your webcam will do it, if nothing else,
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call your own phone and leave a voicemail and you can hear it for yourself.
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Now chances are you have heard your voice before and
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that's what's made you decide you don't like it.
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A word of caution,
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most people don't like the sound of their own voice, and here's why.
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We're used to hearing our own voice all day long,
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filtered through the bones and flesh in our skull.
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So we're hearing our own voice in a profoundly distorted way.
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But when you hear your voice coming through speakers, on a cell phone,
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on speakers on the other side of the room, you're hearing it in a way that's much
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less distorted because it's not going through bones,
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it's not going through flesh, it's just going through the air.
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That's how everyone else hears your voice.
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And again, you wouldn't be in this course if you didn't dislike your voice,
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but I want to throw one possibility out in front of you.
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The problem might not be that you have a bad voice,
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the problem might actually be that you're simply not used to hearing your voice.
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And if you simply heard it more, then you'd get used to it.
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It wouldn't seem strange or alien.
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So here's your first homework assignment.
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I need you to record yourself talking.
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Maybe just record a phone conversation with someone.
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I wouldn't try to read from a phone book because that's likely to sound very
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mechanical.
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But just talk to someone, talk to a friend, family member,
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talk to a business colleague, and record it on audio.
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So that's the first step.
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Just get a minute, preferably two minutes, let's really get it all down.
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Don't listen to it yet, I'll tell you what to do in the next lecture.
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