About this lesson
Use this process to improve your interview approach, presence, and confidence.
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Now, we're ready to put some of this together.
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I want you to do a practice interview, a mock interview,
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ask someone who's already in your organization to come in.
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I want you to treat that person as if they were an applicant from the outside.
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And I want you to go through an actual interview,
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especially practice your introduction, where you're talking about your company in
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a positive way and you're not reading anything.
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Asking questions where you're not reading things, but
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you're looking at the person really having a conversation.
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I want you to do this practice interview, and
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I want you to pull out of your pocket, either a cell phone to capture the video.
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Put it on yourself, you don't have to put it on the colleague you're interviewing,
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or have your webcam on, but I need you to record this.
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I don't want you to just practice it out loud, I want you to practice it on video.
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Then I need you to watch it, and
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I need you to figure out what do you like with how you're coming across?
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What do you not like?
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So if you sound like you're bored, or you're monotone, or
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you're asleep, or you're nervous, or uncomfortable, note that.
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But if you sound positive, engaging,
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if you make the company sound like a great place, note that too.
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I want you to be a harsh critic of yourself, but
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I want you to be a fair critic.
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And a fair critic points out the strengths and the weaknesses,
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not just the weaknesses.
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Now, the reason we're doing this is you need to know exactly how you're coming
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across, and you need to know that you're coming across your best.
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Because if you are nervous, if you are uncomfortable, far better to do it in
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practice when no one else is seeing it or just a friendly colleague is seeing it.
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Then you can correct it, improve it, make it better, and
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you'll be completely confident for the actual interviews you do.
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So please don't pass this step.
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It may seem silly, it may seem overkill, but it really will give you that
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extra added confidence to come across your very best in the job interview.
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So, you've done your mock interview, you've watched yourself,
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you've graded yourself, now, it's time to improve it.
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Let's make it even better.
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Get I want you so comfortable, and relaxed, and
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confident with how you're talking, how you're presenting,
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how you're essentially selling your company to this applicant, that it's as if
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you're just having a chat with your best friend, although about business stuff.
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This way, you can make a good impression on the applicant, and you can really be in
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the moment thinking about them, listening to them, focusing on them.
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And not wondering how you're doing or whether you're making sense or
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whether you sound stupid or not.
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So here's what I want you to do with that video you just saw in your list, you've
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got a list of things you like, you've got a list of things you don't like.
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I want you to pick just one thing that you don't like from that list.
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It may be that you're speaking too quickly,
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which people do when they're nervous.
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It may be that you're speaking too softly because you lack confidence.
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Or you will be perceived as lacking in confidence even if you are confident.
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I want you to pick just one thing that you don't like
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about how you looked and sounded in the mock interview.
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I want you to do the whole thing again, don't try to correct every problem.
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If you don't like your hair or your wrinkles, well, join the club.
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I don't like my hair or wrinkles either, we're not focused on that.
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I just want to make sure that you're comfortable with how you look and
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how you sound and how you're communicating, the things we can control.
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So let's focus on just one thing.
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All the other things that you liked, do that, again, do more of it.
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Let's do the whole mock interview recorded on video, don't just talk it out loud,
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don't talk to the mirror, recorded on video, either through the webcam,
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a tablet, an iPhone, or any smartphone, watch it and critique it again.
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If you did what I asked,
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you should have seen some improvement in that last video or the first one.
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If you didn't, chances are you didn't focus on just one thing.
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Where people get into trouble, is they see ten things they don't like about how
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they're presenting, including things you really can't change, like your hair.
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And they try to change all at once, and you end up just getting frustrated.
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So ideally, you fixed one problem, you may have 20 other things you don't like,
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you may only have one other thing you don't like.
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But at least now, you have a system for eliminating the things you don't like and
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how you present.
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You have a way of boosting more of the things that you do like.
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So I want you to practice the video again,
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practice the mock interview, and record it on video, watch it.
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And here's the trick this time.
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If you like everything about how you're coming across this time, great,
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you're done, you're good to go.
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But if you're not completely happy with how you're presenting,
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how you're summarizing your business, how you're sharing what you like
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about your organization, I want you to keep practicing it,
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keep recording it, keep critiquing it until you are happy with it.
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It may take one more take, it may take 30 takes.
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And at some point, you might not be able to practice with another colleague, but
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you can at least practice your opening two minutes.
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This is the number one way to get over nervousness.
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This is the number one way to build confidence for any type of presentation.
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It doesn't matter if you're sitting behind a desk, presenting in a one-on-one
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interview to a job applicant, or giving a keynote speech to 10,000 people.
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This is a foolproof method, and I absolutely guarantee it.
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If you're feeling nervous at all when you're presenting and doing a job
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interview, it's typically because you're not sure how you're coming across.
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You're not sure if you make sense, you're not sure if you're boring,
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or you're wondering what to do with your hands.
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All of those things are solved.
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If you practice on video until you like it, that's the ultimate test,
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not whether I like it or you pass my test, it's whether you pass your own tests.
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So practice again on video, record it, review it, critique it,
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keep doing it until you like how you're coming across.
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