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Within each of the seven spheres of life, you should identify these seven aspects and plan how you will go about achieving your goals on a daily basis.
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Okay, this is where it gets a little bit complicated, you heard me talk about
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the seven major spheres of life, where you need to have goals for each one of those.
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Now, I go a little deeper inside each one.
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There are seven levels that you have to think about,
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within each realm of the sphere of life.
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So let me walk you through this, so for example, the first level within
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every sphere is what is your big, broad general philosophy.
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This sphere, what's the good life?
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What is your vision of how things could be?
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So, for example, in the first sphere of self-control, do
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you view the ideal situation where someone can in fact control their own life?
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They're not determined by fate, by the gods, by other outside dark forces.
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Do you even view that as a possibility?
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That's the first level of abstract, and
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I'm going to walk you through all of these for each one.
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The second one is determine your specific vision for
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yourself, big picture within this habit sphere.
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You could, for example, say I think that the ideal situation is that human
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beings have complete control over their own life, but
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I'm different, I'm so constrained, I'm so hemmed in.
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I'm always going to be dependent on what other people tell me I have to do,
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you could have that vision, for example.
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So, the first is the really big picture of what's the potential for
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this sphere of life?
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The second one is where do you fit into that?
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Where is your particular vision of yourself in that sphere of life?
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The third thing you've gotta think about is
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what are your long-term goals within that particular sphere?
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The fourth item,
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the fourth level you have to really think about after your long-term goals.
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What are your specific short-term goals and there's a difference,
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we have a long-term goal of being a perfect health, ideal weight for
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your body type, but you're going to have a short-term goal of
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losing five pounds or getting faster at how quickly you run a mile.
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You can have short-term goals as well.
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The fifth level are the core habits you are going to
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do on a daily basis to help you reach your goals.
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Core daily habits, so, the field of health, for example,
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getting eight hours of sleep, could be a core daily habit that you need,
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to help you with all your other goals for your health, in your life.
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The sixth, specific level non-core habits,
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things that you do on a regular basis, but these are not absolutely critical.
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It might be things like avoiding sugar as much as possible in your diet.
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It could be things like walking up steps instead of taking the elevator to get more
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steps for your health.
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There's all sorts of good habits you could do to help support your goals,
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but they're not absolutely essential.
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Reading a novel once a month could be a non-core habit that feeds your creativity.
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But it's not something you feel like you have to read 20 pages a day, a novel,
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in order to fulfill your primary career objectives for your creativity field.
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And then the final one, the final level,
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tiny micro habits you can do in 60 seconds or less.
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These are really simple things,
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these could be as simple as an affirmation where you simply tell yourself,
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I'm going to quickly forget all failures and focus on my victories in life.
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That's one, for example, I do every single day, I put that in
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the category of a tiny microscopic habit that helps support other goals.
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So this is a tiny thing, often you could do it in 10 seconds or less.
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So these are the seven levels I look at through each one of the spheres of life to
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help you figure out your goals, because I have found it's so
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much easier to reach your goals in life, to achieve your goals,
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if you look at your goals within the context of your entire life.
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When one part is out of whack, the other goals will often fall apart.
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If all of your goals are in sync with your vision for
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that particular sphere in life, they all work together,
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they are complementary, and you can have a great life.
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Now, I'm going to walk you through how this is done for
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every one of the spheres of life.
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