About this lesson
Best practices and techniques for how to effectively start a speech.
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So what's the perfect way to start a speech or a presentation?
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Should it with be a joke?
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An icebreaker?
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What's the best way to really start.
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Well, there's no one best way.
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I can tell you the worst way and it's unfortunately the way
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most people start most business presentations everywhere.
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Good morning, my name is this, my title is this.
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Today, I'm here to talk to you about X, Y, Z.
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I'm happy to be here today.
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Before we start,
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let me tell you about the boring history of my company that you don't care about.
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That's how most people start presentations.
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It's entirely predictable, everyone is tuned out,
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the speaker isn't really focused on the audience.
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So what's the audience is doing?
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Well, they're no dummies.
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They're checking out their email, that's what they're doing.
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So as long as you don't do that,
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you're probably gonna be the best speaker most people have heard all day long.
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If you're really good at telling jokes and it seems legitimate and authentic, fine.
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If you wanna use an icebreaker and it seems like it really fits.
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I mean, if you're at a chamber of commerce networking event and
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you're the organizer, it's perfectly fine to ask people to stand up and
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introduce themselves to their neighbors, but be careful.
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If it's done at a big convention and
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people have come to get your expertise, it can seem cheesy, contrived and
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manipulative to start asking people to talk to total stranger.
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So you've got to be careful about that form of an icebreaker.
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If you're gonna use humor, don't read something from an old joke book that
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you got from a library that's a 50 year old joke.
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Make sure it's authentic and legitimate and
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that it's real and not just something generic.
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The easiest way to start off any presentation is to launch right
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into a story that relates to your main point that's interesting to your audience.
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The other best way of starting a presentation is by instantly
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saying something interesting to your audience that relates to them.
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So when I'm giving a speech on public speaking.
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The way I start is this, so why are we here?
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Jim you mentioned that you're comfortable in small audiences, but
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you get a little nervous when you're speaking to a large audience.
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Well, I'm gonna give you some tips on how to deal with that.
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And Brenda, you mention that you actually see your hands shake and
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you're not sure what to do with your hands when you're giving your presentation.
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Well, I'm gonna give you some tips, so
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that no one will ever see your hands shake.
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Now how do I start a speech that way?
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I get there five minutes early and I talk to people and
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I simply ask them, what their biggest concerns are?
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I'm then able to incorporate those little snippets of conversation
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into my presentation.
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The result is Brenda and Jim are really paying attention, cuz it's about
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them plus everyone else I introduced myself to before the presentation.
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They're paying attention, cuz they're thinking, oh, he talked to me too.
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Maybe he's gonna mention my name.
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So I'm mentioning their names, I'm mentioning their concerns and
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I'm talking about how I can help them based on what they said.
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That makes the whole speech more interesting.
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It makes it fresh and it seems the opposite of the contrive, phony,
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reading, a canned speech that somebody else wrote six months ago.
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So try those techniques, but the biggest principle you really
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need to focus on is say something interesting to your audience.
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Today, I'm going to talk about is not interesting.
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My name is this, my ti, not interested.
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There are gonna be seven key themes in my, not interesting.
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Say one thing of interest to your audience, hook them in.
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That way, you don't have to reel them back in after losing them.
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So focus on starting with something interesting for your audience.
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