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Best practices and techniques for how to effectively start a speech.
- 00:04 So what's the perfect way to start a speech or a presentation?
- 00:08 Should it with be a joke?
- 00:10 An icebreaker?
- 00:12 What's the best way to really start.
- 00:14 Well, there's no one best way.
- 00:16 I can tell you the worst way and it's unfortunately the way
- 00:20 most people start most business presentations everywhere.
- 00:25 Good morning, my name is this, my title is this.
- 00:29 Today, I'm here to talk to you about X, Y, Z.
- 00:31 I'm happy to be here today.
- 00:33 Before we start,
- 00:34 let me tell you about the boring history of my company that you don't care about.
- 00:38 That's how most people start presentations.
- 00:42 It's entirely predictable, everyone is tuned out,
- 00:46 the speaker isn't really focused on the audience.
- 00:50 So what's the audience is doing?
- 00:52 Well, they're no dummies.
- 00:53 They're checking out their email, that's what they're doing.
- 00:58 So as long as you don't do that,
- 01:00 you're probably gonna be the best speaker most people have heard all day long.
- 01:06 If you're really good at telling jokes and it seems legitimate and authentic, fine.
- 01:12 If you wanna use an icebreaker and it seems like it really fits.
- 01:17 I mean, if you're at a chamber of commerce networking event and
- 01:21 you're the organizer, it's perfectly fine to ask people to stand up and
- 01:26 introduce themselves to their neighbors, but be careful.
- 01:30 If it's done at a big convention and
- 01:32 people have come to get your expertise, it can seem cheesy, contrived and
- 01:37 manipulative to start asking people to talk to total stranger.
- 01:41 So you've got to be careful about that form of an icebreaker.
- 01:46 If you're gonna use humor, don't read something from an old joke book that
- 01:50 you got from a library that's a 50 year old joke.
- 01:53 Make sure it's authentic and legitimate and
- 01:57 that it's real and not just something generic.
- 02:01 The easiest way to start off any presentation is to launch right
- 02:06 into a story that relates to your main point that's interesting to your audience.
- 02:14 The other best way of starting a presentation is by instantly
- 02:19 saying something interesting to your audience that relates to them.
- 02:25 So when I'm giving a speech on public speaking.
- 02:28 The way I start is this, so why are we here?
- 02:33 Jim you mentioned that you're comfortable in small audiences, but
- 02:36 you get a little nervous when you're speaking to a large audience.
- 02:39 Well, I'm gonna give you some tips on how to deal with that.
- 02:43 And Brenda, you mention that you actually see your hands shake and
- 02:47 you're not sure what to do with your hands when you're giving your presentation.
- 02:51 Well, I'm gonna give you some tips, so
- 02:53 that no one will ever see your hands shake.
- 02:55 Now how do I start a speech that way?
- 02:58 I get there five minutes early and I talk to people and
- 03:02 I simply ask them, what their biggest concerns are?
- 03:07 I'm then able to incorporate those little snippets of conversation
- 03:11 into my presentation.
- 03:13 The result is Brenda and Jim are really paying attention, cuz it's about
- 03:18 them plus everyone else I introduced myself to before the presentation.
- 03:23 They're paying attention, cuz they're thinking, oh, he talked to me too.
- 03:26 Maybe he's gonna mention my name.
- 03:28 So I'm mentioning their names, I'm mentioning their concerns and
- 03:32 I'm talking about how I can help them based on what they said.
- 03:36 That makes the whole speech more interesting.
- 03:38 It makes it fresh and it seems the opposite of the contrive, phony,
- 03:44 reading, a canned speech that somebody else wrote six months ago.
- 03:50 So try those techniques, but the biggest principle you really
- 03:55 need to focus on is say something interesting to your audience.
- 04:00 Today, I'm going to talk about is not interesting.
- 04:05 My name is this, my ti, not interested.
- 04:11 There are gonna be seven key themes in my, not interesting.
- 04:14 Say one thing of interest to your audience, hook them in.
- 04:19 That way, you don't have to reel them back in after losing them.
- 04:23 So focus on starting with something interesting for your audience.
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