About this lesson
Become a better speaker by rehearsing your presentation on video.
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I hope you're having fun so far.
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I hope you're enjoying yourself, but here's the part where you're
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not gonna like me again cuz I have to be brutally honest.
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If you're just watching me, listening, even taking notes, not gonna help.
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You're not going to become a better speaker, you're only going to improve
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if you actually take these principles we've discussed,
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come up with a presentation, deliver it, record yourself and watch it.
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And I know you don't want to do it.
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People don't like doing it, even if they pay me a ton of money to
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fly halfway across the world and show up in their office or their home to do it.
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So I know you don't want to do it,
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unfortunately it's the only way to get better at these skills
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because if you're just watching me, it's really nothing but entertainment.
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And I don't mean to knock myself, but believe me, there are a million
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people you can be watching online who are a lot more entertaining than I am.
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So, if you picked me just for
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entertainment, you have made a profoundly bad decision.
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But I can help you speak more effectively, but you gotta work with me.
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So I'm asking you nicely, in fact, I'm begging you, don't go to the next
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lecture in this course, don't fast forward, don't start reading the books.
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Instead, drop everything, come up with a new outline, as we discussed.
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Have it on a single sheet of paper.
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Try to incorporate as many of the best practices I've highlighted
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in this course so far, and then I need you to give a presentation.
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Most important, I need you to record it.
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Pull out your cell phone, you can hold it yourself.
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If you want, you can prop it up against a wall, use a webcam,
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an iPad, you can have a friend or family member record it for you.
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Again it doesn't matter,
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the quality of the camera, all that matters is that you can see yourself.
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So I need you to record yourself giving this new version of your presentation.
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I need you to watch it, and then I need you to write down or
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type a list of everything you liked about what you see.
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If you liked that you sounded conversational or your stories or
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your examples or that you moved naturally, write it down.
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Give yourself credit.
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Don't just focus on the negatives.
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I want you to be a harsh critic of yourself, but
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I want you to be a fair critic.
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And a fair critic gives equal time, points out the good and the bad.
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So list everything you're doing well, then write everything you don't like.
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What's wrong?
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Are you boring?
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Are you too monotone?
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Is it uninteresting?
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Is it a data tub?
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What is it?
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Write down exactly what you don't like.
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Then I need you to do it again.
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Try to do more of the good stuff.
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Do less of the bad stuff, and keep a list.
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Judge yourself again.
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Write down the good, write down the bad.
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Ideally one list is getting bigger, the other one Is getting smaller.
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I need you to do this at least half a dozen times.
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Keep doing it until you're convinced this is the absolute
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best you can do with your current skill set based on the insights
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I've given you based on your own reflections, based on your own practice.
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Please don't go to the next lecture until you do.
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You're wasting your time.
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Why do you wanna waste your time?
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Don't go to the next lecture until you've recorded your presentation,
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critiqued it numerous times, and you're seeing progress and
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you're convinced it's the best you can do.
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So please do that right now.
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